Have you ever wondered if something actually happened or if you just dreamed it happened? If there’s one wonderful thing you should know about the power of your subconscious mind it is this: it cannot tell the difference between a real experience and one that is vividly imagined. This is the principle behind what makes visualization such an incredibly powerful tool in your process of transforming yourself into your ideal self-image.

A few days ago a friend of mine told me that he felt that his actions the night before had been out of character. We use the phrase “out of character” to excuse our behaviour, to make sure that others know “we are not like that” at all, and that it was the first time we acted that way.

The largest obstacles standing in our way when we begin attempting to utilize the Law of Attraction are our current habitual thought processes. Whether we realize it or not, most of us focus solely on our lacks, our wants, (also translated as “things we don’t have” or “lack”), and on the things that irritate us or stand in our way.

An emotion gives us information about what is right and what is wrong for us, what is beneficial to us and harmful, what we want and what we don’t want. So what are these negative emotions trying to tell you?

Remember the Rod Stewart song, “If you think I’m sexy and you want my body, come on baby let it show”. I know you’re probably singing along right now aren’t you. Admit it, Rod Stewart was the king of sexy in his day. But I’m not here to reflect upon retired rock legends that are old enough to be my father, I’m here to address the SEXY woman…YOU.